V A is a long standing and recognised digital creative; her voice resonates with many. In the last ten years, the site has developed into an online destination for fashion, beauty and lifestyle advice. Her sense of style, editorial flair and practical counsel offers an inspired and graceful approach to living.

V A is a long standing and recognised digital creative; her voice resonates with many. In the last ten years, the site has developed into an online destination for fashion, beauty and lifestyle advice. Her sense of style, editorial flair and practical counsel offers an inspired and graceful approach to living.

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Mar 11, 2020

Style Notes: The Special Occasion

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The special occasion is one of the hardest to dress for.

What to wear?

As much as I love and look forward to a special occasion, the what-to-wear is the bit that sends me into a panic.


Occasion dressing is so much harder than everyday dressing.

A special event requires planning and there is very rarely anything in the wardrobe that is suitable. If there is the vague possibility of an outfit coming together my experience tells me I either don’t like it, it doesn’t fit or I don’t feel good enough in it.


The problem is twofold.

Most of us don’t dress for enough special occasions and that means we don’t willingly invest in special occasion wear.

See the problem? Don’t need it; don’t buy it. Need it; don’t own it.


My signature style tends to stop at day wear and a dressy dinner, so when it comes to formal wear or out-of-the-norm celebrations my wardrobe is a little lost. This is where I have been going about it all wrong.



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The way to solve the special occasion dilemma is to dedicate a small part of the wardrobe.


Time spent understanding what dressing for a special occasion requires and what suits us is truly time saved. Leaving this kind of investment to the last minute is never successful and searching days and even hours before an event usually turn into a disaster. I never find what I like, let alone what suits and I end up wearing an outfit that doesn’t really make me happy or make me feel I have made the right amount of effort.


So many occasions have turned that way for me.

Instead of feeling fabulous (because I didn’t spend the time) I have made do. I don’t want to do that in the future. Generally, special occasion dressing is just that; the moment is one to remember, one to cherish and therefore worth dressing accordingly. If nothing else, think of the photos.



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What’s the solution to special occasion dressing?

Leave behind the idea that a “special occasion” is not worth the cost.

This mindset is the death knell for creating a wardrobe of special pieces that can take you where you need to go regardless of how dressy. Dressier pieces will cost more but if wisely bought they will last and not only save the day but also save money on a cost-per-wear basis.


Special occasions are worth the investment of both time and money.



Do not buy for a specific event, but buy when you find the right outfit.

It is easy to ignore the formal section or the seriously grown-up dinner dresses and tuxedo suits when shopping, for all those reasons we share.

I can hear them in my head now as I write, ” I don’t need this”, “I will never wear this again” or “I will look when I have somewhere to wear go”.


This kind of logic has done me a disservice and I still regret today not finding something fabulous for certain parties. I plan the party and forget about the dress. If I had bothered to spend the time when I had the time I would have not had to wear a dress I wasn’t so thrilled with.


Whenever possible, don’t leave special occasion buying until the last minute.



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Know your signature style.

A special occasion does not mean we dress in a way that is entirely unfamiliar or uncomfortable.


This kind of dress-up is a more elaborate, thought-out version of us. A time when we can throw a little caution and make the extra effort. The mother of the bride does not have to wear what she doesn’t like and I think she can be true to herself. A black-tie event or formal gala has many solutions.

The element in common is the knowledge of how we want to look. If classic and elegant is your mantra, then that’s the point to start. A bohemian and colourful style means just that.



Don’t be frightened of the special occasion.

Sometimes the thought can send us into a spiral of indecision. That’s the worst place to start. It is more helpful to view special occasion dressing as a challenge, an exciting one. Accept the wardrobe needs these pieces and keep an eye out for what might work.



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What’s in the wardrobe?

There is one piece I believe is essential to the special occasion and can go a long way to solving the what-to-wear drama.


I find the dress, in varying lengths, is the easiest piece to wear and to work for a special event. The length can change the story remarkably.


Knee-length or above works for the less formal special occasion but is difficult to pass for many black-tie events; the mid-calf dress can 9 times out of 10 get you through. The mid-calf can also double as a more formal dinner dress.


A long evening gown is worn less but the right one can go everywhere and for years to come. A classic shape, with or without sleeves makes it through most seasons with the addition of a short jacket or shawl. The dress can be accessorised to make it feel different for each wear.


I have learned that the dress is really one to love, the dress won’t let us down and the dress will fit in. It’s the one to wear when in doubt.


If you see a special “something”, don’t wait; there will always be the right occasion, xv.



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